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Selasa, 23 Maret 2010

How To Get My Ex Back

By Dale Breezer

I can only assume that if you are reading through a piece like this, that you have recently joined the single world unwillingly. So how to get my ex back, you ask? Well that can certainly be done, if you are willing to put in the effort to make that happen. Take some of this advice into consideration.

Now there are no guarantees, as it really all depends on the situation that you two are in. So keep this in mind as you read through the paragraphs of this piece. While there might be some sound advice contained here, there might be more extenuating circumstances that are just far from being correctable. This should be a good place to start, though.

I would suggest that the first thing you should do is get out a pen and a piece of paper and start writing down some of the things that you loved about your girl. Write out even the things that seem to be insignificant, as they won't be insignificant to her when she later hears or reads about them. Get detailed, get intimate. Remember, there is a difference between intimate and graphic.

One important thing that you could attempt to remember, if you might have forgotten, are the type of flowers that your significant other liked. No matter what they might say, all women love flowers and you should be willing to spend any amount of money to sustain this craving that they have just because, not just on specific important dates. Nothing beats unexpected flowers, especially from someone that you are trying to get over.

In order for this process to work, you are going to have to become the sensitive guy that she craves. Not just until you win her back, but for all the time thereafter. This means that you need to be romantic and emotional together, and you need to be okay with being vulnerable sometimes for the sake of her being together and sharing everything. Sensitivity will go miles towards your rekindling.

A good way to show that you are in fact a man that is much more in tune with the way that they feel, and the way that she feels, is to let her know directly. This means either in a letter, or through face to face interaction. No texts, no phone calls. Tell her some of the things you thought might have been insignificant, as they will let her know that you noticed her even in the smallest detail. Things like the way her hair smelled, or her preference of your shirts when you went to bed.

One way that you can get an opening to express some of these feelings and the things that you miss about her, is to offer to take her out to dinner as a token of your friendship. Recreate a particular date that was important to both of you, in the most minute detail. Tell her across the table what your life was like when you were together, without being afraid to get a little emotional about it.

Do not expect her to take you back on the spot, but if she does than great. Give her time, and give her some space. Give her the opportunity to miss you, while every once and awhile giving her a taste of the romantic side of yourself. This is how to get my ex back, if you were asking. When you get her back, keep up the romance!

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